Since I know you wondered this immediately after reading that headline: I'm not sure if I've ever had a vaginal orgasm. And yes, it bothers me. I think of myself as someone with a pretty good handle on my genitals, literally and figuratively — I can knock out as many as 15 normal orgasms a day, if highly motivated. But I've never been able to quite wrap my arms or legs around the issue of the vaginal orgasm.

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Understanding the Male Orgasm and Arousal Dynsfunction
Because no-one talked about it, no-one knew how common it was, an a culture of silence around orgasms was forged. Those of you who can orgasm from just penetrative sex are super lucky and should feel very pleased with yourselves. You are in a small minority and can probably enjoy sex with someone who is relatively unskilled. Some women only need their clitoris to be stimulated before sex in order to come during it. Please banish any concerns about scaring a man off. A bullet vibrator is small enough to easily fit between you in most positions, and means that you can both enjoy orgasms, possibly even at the same time. Remember, good sex is a right, not a privilege.


Are Vaginal Orgasms a Myth? I Tried Really Hard to Have One, and Here's What Happened
Especially if you want to orgasm during penetration. A recent study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that women only orgasm There are numerous other studies and stats out there about the female orgasm struggle, and the numbers vary depending on the sample and the decade in which the research occurred. Bottom line, though: If you have a vagina, sex without orgasm may be a frustratingly common reality.



In fact, some experts say 70 percent of women rarely or never have orgasms. And yet men put a premium on it for a few obvious reasons: 1 porn and 2 they want to feel like their penis is a sexual hot rod that will make you speak in tongues and throw your vibrator into a volcano. Ob-gyn Heather Bartos explains that vaginal orgasms tend to be deeper and involve more pulsating of the vaginal muscles than clitoral orgasms. The clitoris is super sensitive afterward and a longer refractory period may be necessary.